Saturday, September 3, 2011

Masturbation

Okay. I have a confession to make. I rarely masturbate. Why, you may ask? Probably because as a child/teenager I was taught that "touching yourself" was a sin and then as an adult I was submissive enough to believe that my precious almond actually belonged to my husband and I had no right to "use" it. (For the record, he NEVER said or even implied this! My own twisted mind came up with that one!) So now, at the ripe old age of - an experienced 26 year old - I'm just now discovering how to masturbate and I gotta say, in all honesty, I'm not very good at it.

I've tried the following methods with very limited success.
hands and fingers (of course!)
vibrator
bullet vibrator
in the tub
in the shower
with the shower massager
a jet in the hot tub (this is the most successful, but is it really masturbation if the jet does all the work?)
tingly lube with above toys and fingers.

Honestly, I'm stumped and frustrated and feeling a bit like a failure! I want to include more masturbation scenes in my writing, but I'm lacking success and experience. Therefore - I'd really appreciate any suggestions!  

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I've been thinking and logging back in my jolly times watching/observing, openly, and consider that discussing this with others eye to eye is the best way to get what you want here. R.

Chuck said...

2 words....porn and eroscillator. one is free, the other is an investment. my wife is in love with here toy. it is our 3rd in the 3some.